How to Use a Bidet: A First-Timer's Complete Guide (2026)
⚡ Quick Answer
Sit on the toilet normally, do your business, then activate the rear wash (turn the knob or press the button). 20–30 seconds of water. Pat dry with a small piece of paper or use the air dryer if you have one. Done. The first time takes 60 seconds to figure out — after that it's automatic.
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Nobody teaches you how to use a bidet, which is why so many people feel awkward about it. This guide fixes that. We'll walk you through exactly what to do — whether you have a basic attachment or a full electric seat.
Using a Non-Electric Bidet Attachment
Use the toilet normally
Nothing changes here. The bidet is activated after, not before.
Remain seated and turn the knob
On a TUSHY Classic or Luxe Neo 120, the knob on the right side controls the rear wash. Turn it clockwise to activate. The nozzle extends from under the seat.
Adjust pressure to your preference
Continue turning the knob to increase pressure. Start gentle — low pressure is completely effective. 20–30 seconds is typically sufficient.
Turn off and pat dry
Return knob to off. The nozzle retracts and self-rinses. Use 1–2 squares of toilet paper to pat dry (not wipe — pat). Most people reduce TP use by 75%+.
Using an Electric Bidet Seat
Sit on the pre-warmed seat
Electric seats heat the seat surface. This alone is a revelation in winter. No action needed — it's always warm.
Press Rear Wash on the remote
The remote is wall-mounted or side-panel. "Rear" or a symbol of a person from behind activates the rear nozzle with warm water.
Adjust temperature and pressure
Most remotes have + / - buttons for pressure and temperature. Defaults are usually sensible — adjust once and your preferences are set.
Press Stop, then Dry
Press Stop to retract the nozzle. If you have an air dryer, press Dry — 60–90 seconds of warm air. No paper needed at all.
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Shop TUSHY Classic 3.0 on Amazon →Frequently Asked Questions
Do you still wipe after using a bidet?
Pat-dry only — 1–2 squares of paper after water cleaning. You're not wiping debris, just patting moisture. Many people with air dryers on their electric seats eliminate paper entirely.
Which direction does the water spray?
The nozzle extends from under the seat and sprays upward at an angle. For rear wash it's positioned toward the back; for feminine wash it's positioned slightly forward. The spray is directed, not omnidirectional.
How long should you use the bidet?
20–30 seconds is sufficient for thorough cleaning. For therapeutic purposes (hemorrhoids, postpartum care), 2–3 minutes of warm water is recommended.